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GOLF FOR LADIES
As to its being a ladies' game—A sport of freedom—The lady on the
links—The American lady golfer—English ladies are improving—Where they fail, and
why—Good pupils—The same game as the man's—No short swings for ladies—Clubs of
too light weight—Their disadvantages—A common fault with the sex—Bad backward
swings—The lady who will find out for herself—Foundations of a bad style—The way
to success.
Some people say
that golf is not a ladies' game, and from time to time one hears of something in
the nature of dissensions within the family circle when there are wives and
sisters anxious to take up the sport which palpably affords their male relatives
one of the greatest enjoyments of life, and when there are husbands and brothers
who, it is said, advance arguments which for number and ingenuity would do
credit to a King's Counsel, designed to show the absurdity and the futility of
the desire expressed. It is a question upon which it would be out of place for
me here to take any side, though it seems to me that there is something to be
said for the complete separation of the men's golf from the ladies' golf,
particularly in the case of large clubs and crowded courses.
Golf is essentially a sport of freedom. Restraint of even the most trivial and conventional
character in regard to manners and customs is irksome when there are holes to be
played and tight matches to be pulled out of the fire. I like to see a lady go
out on the golf links in whatever costume she thinks fit to wear for her own
comfort and good play, and generally to do as she likes, as if there were
nothing but[Pg 199]
Nature and a little white ball and the hole with the flag in it in all the
world. I have a great admiration for the American lady golfer, whom I have
several times had the opportunity of studying on her native tees, and the other
day I read the perfectly true story of an American clergyman making a scathing
attack from the pulpit one Sunday upon lady golfers, of whom he numbered many in
his congregation. The reverend gentleman exclaimed that some of the lady members
of his congregation attended divine service in the customary manner on the
Sabbath, and then "swore like troopers" on the golf links on the Monday. The
conduct of these ladies was no doubt exaggerated; but it appears as if it may
have been reprehensible. However, it shows the keenness and the enthusiasm of
the American lady golfer; and I am not at all sure that the answer of the
English lady player, when she was asked if those bad words were ever uttered in
this country, that the Englishwoman made fewer bad shots and had no occasion for
an extended vocabulary, was entirely convincing. One hears that the ladies have
coined new words for the expression of their disgust at the results of their
strokes, and, on the other hand, that the limits of expletive which they permit
themselves when bunkered consist of the chiding utterance, "Oh, you naughty,
naughty little ball!" However this may be, I know not, and I would only remark,
without presumption, to the ladies, as I have done in another place to their
husbands and brothers, that golf is a game for thought and silence.
Now, I am glad to see so many ladies taking up the game year by year, and
thus giving the best possible answer to the question whether it is a real
ladies' game or not. And furthermore, I am pleased to bear witness that the
standard of ladies' golf in this country is improving every season, so that now
it needs a fine man golfer to give a third to the best of the gentler sex. These
good lady players, or some of them, are attiring themselves in these days as I
like[Pg 200] to see
lady golfers attired, that is to say, there is evidence that they think a trifle
less of fashion and dainty appearance than they do of security, comfort, and
freedom of limb and muscle. But the majority of lady players do not attach the
proper amount of importance to these considerations, and that is why one is
sometimes a little doubtful as to the prospects of ladies' golf generally in
this country in comparison with those of American ladies' golf. The American
girls are adopting the game more whole-heartedly and thoroughly than their
English sisters, and their devotion to it will tell. The lady of the States who
is a golfer dresses for golf and for golf only. Very seldom do you see in
America a lady golfer wearing a hat, or head covering of any description. When
she has one, it is almost invariably a light tam o'shanter, or something very
small and soft, which clings closely to the hair and does not get in the way of
the swing of the club. She tucks up her sleeves like a man, and in the soles of
her shoes she has plenty of goodly sized nails. And she does not look a tittle
the worse for any of these things; indeed, the picture of the determined,
strenuous, and yet charming lady golfer was one of the most attractive that I
saw when in America. The average English girl does not appear willing to make so
many sacrifices for golf as the American. She seems too often to say to herself
that it is only a little game after all, and there is an end of it; and yet she
is always desirous of getting on and reducing her handicap. I need hardly say
that this is not the proper spirit in which to achieve success at golf. We see
too many ladies on our links with big hats and no nails in their shoes. I have
no faith whatever in their future as golfers. It is impossible to play good golf
if one is not fitted out properly for the game, whether the player be lady or
man. Few players of our sex would dream of going on to the links in a tightly
fitting coat and smooth-soled shoes. But the ladies are more venturesome.
After this brief lecture on attire, let me at once declare[Pg 201] that there are
many points about our English lady golfer that I greatly admire. It has been my
privilege to teach the first principles of the game to many of them, and I am
bound to say that for the most part I have found them excellent pupils—better
generally than the men learners. They seem to take closer and deeper notice of
the hints you give them, and to retain the points of the lesson longer in their
memories. They are painstaking; and if she begins to play early enough in her
life, adopts sensible methods, and is possessed of an average amount of
athleticism, I can see no reason why any lady should not become a very fair
golfer. Many somewhat spoil their prospects by concluding too hastily that they
must play an altogether different game from that of their men friends, that they
must have special clubs, special methods, and so forth. This is not the case. No
doubt it is well for ladies to admit at once that they cannot drive as far as
the men. But otherwise the man's game and the lady's game are the same in
principle and in practice. As for the manner in which to play, I have not a
single special piece of instruction to offer, and can only refer the lady
neophyte to the previous pages, in which I have set forth as well as I am able
the precise method in which each of the many strokes in golf should be played. I
have merely to insist that they shall not deviate from these methods in one or
two special matters in which they are advised or inclined to do.
Ladies are frequently advised that they ought never to take a full swing. Of
course in the foregoing pages I have frequently insisted that a golfer should
avoid the absolutely full swing with all iron clubs, believing that he gets for
the most part at least as good results with a good three-quarter swing. But
those people who warn the ladies against the full swing, not only with their
irons but with their wooden clubs also, advise the half swing because they say
it is better for them for physical reasons, and that their results will be
practically as good as if they had taken the three-quarter[Pg 202] or the full. Now I am convinced
that this is altogether wrong, and, without encouraging any of my lady readers
to the development of a big swing and a slashing style, I do say that they will
do well for themselves and for their golf if they will train themselves to the
making of at least a full three-quarter. I believe that the half swing entails a
severer strain upon the body when made under these circumstances than the full
three-quarter, and that the body does altogether more work than is good for it,
while the delusion is entertained by those who recommend the short swing that
the opposite is the case. In this half swing the body seems to get too much in
front of the club and to labour heavily, while in the three-quarter the arms do
most of the work, as they ought to do, and the body comes in at the proper time
for the remainder. Though in previous chapters I have strongly advised golfers
to play a half shot with one club in preference to a full shot with one more
powerful, I only do so obviously when the distance is fixed and the half shot
will reach it. In playing from the tee it is an altogether different matter. In
this case the distance is not fixed. The object is usually to drive as far as
possible, so no half shots are wanted here.
As a general rule, ladies make use of clubs that are far too light for them.
Frequently they do so by advice, and then their own instinct suggests to them
that they should employ weapons less weighty than those of their male relations.
This would be very sensible and proper if the clubs which men make use of were
the heaviest that they could swing with effect. But a man only uses a club of a
certain weight, because experience has proved that it is the best and most
effectual for its purpose, and usually he has a very great reserve of strength
which could be employed with heavier clubs if necessary. There is no reason at
all why ladies should not employ clubs of good average weight instead of
featherweights. By so doing they would spare themselves a great amount of
exertion, and they would[Pg
203] certainly get better results, for it is always much more
difficult to get good results with a light club than with one of medium weight.
With the featherweight the swing is very liable to get out of gear. It is cut
short, and is apt to wander out of its proper direction. There is, in fact, no
such control over the club as there is when one can feel the weight of the head
at the end of the shaft. A lady may require clubs a trifle shorter in the shaft,
but this is the only difference which need exist, and it is not of itself
sufficient to make any perceptible difference in the weight.
So far as I have discovered, ladies have no special faults or weaknesses of
their own, as distinct from other players, but I have found them more than
usually addicted to inaccuracy in the backward swing, causing the toe of the
club to be pointing upwards instead of downwards at the turning-point. This is
the result of wrong action and loss of control over the wrists, and a study of
my remarks on driving, where this matter is specially dealt with, should do much
to obviate it. It is possible, however, that the lady's inferior strength of
wrist, as compared with a man's, may have much to do with the fault, but even in
that case it only needs caution and care to bring about a cure. I should say
that fully three ladies out of every five whose play I have watched make this
mistake, and it is a fault which has very serious consequences. I should advise
all of them to make a periodical examination of the position of the club head at
the top of the swing, as I indicated when discussing the drive, and if they find
the toe is upwards they must make up their minds to get rid of this bad habit at
any cost. If it has already become a part of the player's system, it will not be
abolished without considerable difficulty. To begin with, she would try swinging
back more slowly, as a too rapid backward swing has often much to do with
it.
Finally, I would suggest that any lady who aspires to be a really good golfer
should take numerous lessons from those players superior to herself who are
qualified to give[Pg
204] them. I have already said that I have found ladies exceedingly
good pupils, and when they set about learning the game in the right way, they
often make really astonishing progress. But it must be confessed that in too
many cases they do not treat the difficulties of the game with sufficient
seriousness, and are inclined to think that they can get on best in their own
way and by the adoption of their own methods. When once a lady has been given a
couple of lessons in the swing for the drive, she often insists on finding out
the rest for herself, and then a bad result is inevitable. All the practice and
patience in the world will not make a good lady golfer if she does not learn the
game in the right way. The simple fact is that, when a man sets about the game
he admits its difficulties from the beginning, and goes about surmounting them
in the right manner if he is really ambitious and covetous of a short handicap.
But it often seems that ladies will not admit these difficulties, and persist in
their attempt to make golfers of themselves unaided. Perhaps that is one reason
why ladies do not always continue with the game with that increasing eagerness
and enthusiasm which is an almost invariable characteristic of the man golfer.
Learn properly, and practise much; and—well, yes, do the rest like a man, and
not as if there were a special woman's way. That is the essence of my counsel to the lady aspirant on the links.
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